It been really late at night, alone in my bedroom, staring at the computer screen and using facebook. I don't know what to do and what I should do. Sometime something just have a sorrowful ending isn't it?
It's seem that all good things must come to an end. Be it love, friends, family and the things around you. I don't have the definite answer, do tell me if I am wrong.
Why do I have this thought, because things around me are slowly drifting away. Maybe not things, but this just one stuff. But it meant alot to me, so important that I will cry when I were to lose it. I did lose it in the end, and that is the reason this post is for, to rant about me losing my precious stuff?
NO, that's not it
Things around us are always changing, the only different is the speed they changed. If we do not keep up, we will end up losing it. True or not, you decide.
What I wanna say is, I make a mistake. I didn't cherish those stuff I have and thus I end up losing it. I didn't notice that the things around me are changing and I kept myself at square one, foolish thinking that things will stay where they were and not dissappear.
But I was wrong, things changes, people changes. Things that you didn't cherish won't be yours forever. Be it love, friends or family. It's all the same. If you didn't cherish them, soon they will drift away, slowly but surely and when you realise it, it's gone.
Let's take love for example, if you don't put in effort in it, soon the love, the feeling will be gone. You can't make a girl love you forever if you constantly doing nothing to maintain the feeling and love.
True? Yes it is. Because human feeling won't stay so strong forever, if you didn't put in the effort to talk or maybe return the love to her, do you think she will love you forever? She will probably feel dishearted, and slowly her feeling will dweil, because her mind will keep telling her that there is no hope and ask her to give up. Thus do you now believe that there is no such thing as someone loving you forever if you are constantly doing nothing.
Friends are the same too, if you didnt make the effort to stay in contact or even just saying hi. Do your think you can still maintain that friendship? I doubt so.
Family are of different case, they are mostly by your side. Because they are close to you, and stay in the same roof. But you still have to put in effort. True, they won't say byebye and leave you alone. But they maybe taken away by age and sickness. And if you didn't notice or care for them, one day they will just leave you and you won't know why.
Conclusion? Things around us are always changing, put an effort, notice it and do something about it. Because things won't just stay where they are, they will disappear. Don't regret when you lost something because you didn't cherish it before. But cherish them as much as you can, before it is lost.
**Remenber
Cherish those things around you, because you never knew when they will be gone.