2 Ears 1 Mouth

Back on posting again, got some idea of what to post. xD

What is it about? It involves moving your mouth.

Conversation/Talking?

Yeah that right.

Talking is a very good skill, learn to talk well, and you will have the whole world behind you.

But the truth is, I myself am not a good speaker. Then what are the problem I face, let's say lack of topic? I believe that the problem most people face too.

So what make a good speaker? A good speaker is someone who knows when to listen.

Let me give you a scenario,

Imagine you have a group of friends, talking about something. Let's say it's about a game you never heard before. What will you do? Cut in and act like you play it before? But the best way is actually listen to what they are talking about and ask them about it. Then they will reply you back, and there you have it. You have started a conversation.

There a sentence I heard somewhere from, it say, "a wise man know when to speak and when not too".

The truth is, conversation can make you and the other party closer, but too much will only make them feel irritated.

Why?

Imagine you are with a group of friends and there is this person who talks non-stop like a machine gun. Wow, after 10 minutes he is still the only one talking. I believe you will be bored too. Conversation means a 2 way interaction not a one way. So listen when you need to and talk when you have to. Give the other party a chance to voice out their opinion too. A one way conversation is not call a conversation, I will call it a speech.

Of course humor place an important part in a conversation too as it will spice up the mood. But too much of it won't be good. Too much humor will only make the other party laugh non-stop and thus not talking. So would that be called a conversation? Know your limit and everything will be fine.

So let's end this short with a quote.

"You can't speak about what you don't know."

A smile a day, chase the unhappy away :))

笑口常开，好彩之然来

OMG, it's in Chinese. I don't understand.

Alright!

Here the English meaning,
laugh mouth always open, good colour auto come.

Dun understands? That was a direct translation. Here the real meaning,
Keep a smile on your face, good things will come. xD

By now you should know what my topic for today.

Smile xD :)

Yippee, that right.

Why smile? Can smile really chase away unhappiness? What if I am sad and I just can't smile? So many why, right?

Before I begin, let me tell you about something interesting that why you should smile.

Did you know, Smiling Boosts Your Immune System?
I saw it on a website and it seems interesting. So I decided to post it here.

Why smile? Let me guide you more.

A simple answer to why you should smile is that it makes you happy. That happiness of yours will then passes on to others and make other happy. See what a good deed you have done by just smiling. Imagine you are walking on the street, feeling moody. No friends, no money, no girlfriend, no family and you say life suck. Then you accidentally drop a coin, someone pick it up and pass it to you with a smile on their face. How do you feel? Happy? Most probably you will.

Smile gives others an impression that you are friendly, cheerful, and have an outgoing personality. This will make you stand out and also think more positively. Don't believe it? Try it yourself. Does happy or sad stuff come to your mind?

How bored life can be if no one smile. Imagine you are walking on the streets and everywhere, you see people groaning or giving you an unhappy look. You will also feel unhappy too.

What if you can't smile as there is just too much unhappy stuff in your mind. How? Alright, let me teach you my personal method.

The only way to be happy is to smile, agree? If you can't, just wipe your mind off all unhappy stuffs and think about happy things that happen in your life before. Trust me; before you knew it, you are already smiling. xD

Before I end I would like to give you a quote, "A slightest smile wins the hardest frown"

So people, let's not groan or frown anymore, learn to smile. xD follows me and smile.

Impossible? No, I M Possible xD

How I wish I could rearrange the alphabetic order, so I can put U and I together.

But now all hope is lost, I guess its impossible now.


Alright off to my topic, Make the IMPOSSIBLE become I M POSSIBLE. They have the same letters, but it means two total different things.

One means you can’t achieve it, and the other mean you can.

How to make the impossible possible?

Let see, Usain Bolt of Jamaica, did an Olympic record in Beijing 2008 with a timing of 9.69s. Wow fast isn't it?

But my secondary school teacher once told me about a story about the 100 metre sprint record,

He said "In the past, there is no record pass 10s as many believe man cannot surpass the 10s barrier, then one guy who believe the impossible possible make it though, and thus making the record of 9.69s possible"

I was shock upon hearing it. Hmmm, it took so hard to just break the 10s barrier in the past, what make it possible to get a result of 9.69s which is nearing impossible to achieve at that time possible now?

It’s all about one thing, time. Time play a very important role in grooming talent, time make thing hard to believe possible, one example are computers, there was no such thing as computer in the past and now is so common in every household.

See how time play an important role in achieving the impossible possible.

But I wonder is it really times alone that make things happen. I doubt so. I think it's also about the right attitude and a positive mindset.

If u has the right attitude and a positive mindset, chances are you will success.

Why?

Because positive attitude and mindset bring in positive energy, thinking positive make you feel more confidence, and such making many things that seem impossible, possible.

If you always say it's impossible to do it, you will have a mindset telling you that it's impossible and thus you will not be able to achieve it as you will follow the path to fail. As your mindset tells you it is impossible to achieve it, you will work toward that very goal telling you that you will never achieve it, thus making you a failure.

Then what if a person says it's possible? Then it will be possible.

Let's us view though, if you say it’ possible, your mindset will be set to the goal that it will be possible. Thus it will make you work toward the goal, making it possible.

A summary about this post, always have the right attitude, a positive mindset and with time you will succeed as long as you follow your mind and work toward your goal.

Before I end this post I would like to give you a quote,

Nothing is impossible as long as you think it's possible.